~♥~Few Interesting Facts

Hari ini shinky hendak berkongsi dengan semua beberapa fakta menarik bila melahirkan baby bagi orang afghanistan atau kata lain, penjagaan baby masa pantang.

Cuba tengok gambar Ranaa di atas yang telah dipakaikan celak atau "ranji" dalam bahasa pashto. Celak tu nenek (ana) Ranaa yang letakkan. Katanya supaya mata jadi cantik dan besar. Selain daripada itu dapat mengelakkan daripada mudah dijangkiti penyakit mata. Hmmm, shinky ikut jer, kalau dilarang karang kecil pula hati ibu mertua ku itu..he he.

Calit kat tengah-tengah di antara bulu kening tu pula dibuat dengan alasan untuk mengelakkan "bad eyes" atau kata orang kalau ada orang berniat buruk pada anak kita, dapatlah dielakkan. Pada logiknyer, shinky rasa kalau letak calit hitam tu, muka anak kita jadi buruk, so tak lah ada orang nak puji, jadi takderlah orang nak dengki ker kan...he he.

Kat sebelah bantal Ranaa, ada duit kertas kan, kat sini, jadi kebiasaan bila melawat anak kecil, kita akan berikan duit.....hmmmm, duit tu Mak Lang Ranaa yang bagi, dia tiba malam tadi.

Dalam gambar juga boleh nampak Ranaa siap berbengkung. Benkung jadi kemestian kat sini, bengkung tu macam biasalah kita buat cara orang melayu tu, tapi cuma ditambah dengan ikatan tali bengkung. Mula-mula dulu, masa buat kat ekah, shinky terkial-kial jugak, sekarang ni dah okay dah...laju jer bila bengkung Ranaa, cewah.....naik lif tekan butang sundirik lah pulak.

Selain daripada itu, untuk mengelakkan si kakak atau abang, cemburu kepada adik yang baru lahir, mula-mula sekali kita tunjukkan bahagian kaki kepada abang atau kakak, jadi tidaklah si kakak atau abang benci atau cemburu dengan adik. Ekah haritu pak cik dia terus tunjuk muka Ranaa kat dia...he he....tapi so far, cemburu tu memang ada, tapi nak kata dia tak sayang adik dia tak pulak, sayang ken main lagi nampak.

Bagi orang melayu pulak kita simpan tali pusat anak-anak kita kat dalam satu bunjut kan, supaya bila diaorang besar nanti diorang tak bercekau. So, shinky pun simpan jugak tali pusat ekah dan Ranaa, oh ya, tali pusat Ranaa tanggal semalam, pada hari ke 10, ekah haritu pada hari ke 12 baru tanggal. Shinky simpan tali pusat diorang kat dalam kotak ni.

Lagi satu, masa dalam pantang ni, baby tak boleh ditinggalkan bersendirian, hatta nak ke tandas pun, kena ada sorang jaga dia, so sekarang ni senang sikit, sebab Kak Long Ekah dah ada, dia sentiasa volunteerkan diri untuk jaga adik dia. Tapi, bukan boleh percaya sangat kat Kak Long nih, so, kena keep on eye on her jugak.

That's few facts yang shinky ingat masa ni, kalau ada lagi nanti shinky tambah. Letihlah pulak melayan puteri berdua tu, queen nak berehat lah pulak..he he

~♥~My Two Beloved Princess

Only one word i can say, ALHAMDULILLAH, to get this two princess in my life. Before, Allah granted me with my angel, Malaekah, and now, Allah blessed me with another beautiful sweetheart princess. Me and my husband agreed to put her name as 'RANAA' which means, "light" in pashto language. My father in law choose this name, and me and my husband like it. So, our second princess name is Ranaa.

Malaekah behave very good to her little sister. All the times she will give a look to her on her bed crib while Ranaa was sleeping. She kissed her so much. And funny, she even want to breastfeed her little sister...ha ha.

Malaekah said that Ranaa is her baby. Alhamdulillah, she accepted her very well, and even sometimes she felt jealous when i breastfeeding Ranaa, or when i keep picking ranaa on my arms, she tried to "merengek" and called me again and again "mama, mama, mama" to seek my attention. But so far, i try to balanced the attention to both of my two little princess.

My beloved ekah also help me to hand me napkin, towel, or other things which i asked her to take for me. She love to be around and help me. I am so glad to have her as a sister for Ranaa, she seems so excited to have this baby as her sister and friend. Thank God, she love her little sister so much.

Here few pics of malaekah and ranaa. I don't have chance to snap nice pictures of them so far. Still try to manage things and time with this two princess.

~♥~It's A Princess

Salam to all,

Just a short notice, to up date to you all that our new arrival is a princess again....:)

Born on 20th. June 2008, 8.51pm, c-sect, 3 kg. Not given a name yet.....:)

I will write details later...hope u all happy with this news, thank you for all wishes and prayers.

Here are few pics of our new princess

~♥~Our New Coming Baby Stuff

As my friend Farah from Penang request the pics of dress which i bought for my new baby, so here i paste the pics of them. Nothing special, just few dresses, and others. Here people believe it's not good to prepare so much things for unborn baby, they will buy things after the baby born :)

But, i still feel that i have to buy those things below because i'ts important.

~♥~Evening at KFC

Malam ni tadi, lepas maghrib, shinky, hubby dan ekah gi shopping sikit, untuk adik ekah. Adalah beli baju 3 pasang, sarung tangan dan kaki, dan other baby stuff. Lepas tu kitaorang gi KFC, ramai lah pulak orang, so, tapau jer.

Nilah gambar bangunan KFC kat tempat kami ni. Sorry, gambar tak clear, ambil guna HP.

Pintu nak masuk KFC

My princess naik tangga, kat tepi kaunter

Anak dara gue jengok brother KFC kat belakang tabir...he he

Moncong jer ekah tunggu cashier tu dok bungkus KFC

Aloo abang macho...he he....jgn mara aaa, mama ekah ambil gambar....:P

Kat sini, time summer, semua orang shopping waktu malam, time siang toksah mimpilah, panas berdenting. So, time summer ni lah bazaar berfungsi.

~♥~Di Saat Akhir Mengandung

My Other half balik on last Thursday. Malaekah double happy sebab baba dia dah sihat, dah tu abah dia pula dah balik. Masa abah dia baru sampai, dia siap tawaf keliling abah dia, siap menyanyi-nyanyi lagi. Lepas tu mulalah melekat kat abah dia ajer. Abah dia pun nampak happy sangat bila jumpa puteri kesayangan dia yang sorang tu.

Well, entah kenapa, lately aku rasa lain macam jer. Rasa excited nak melahirkan tu memang tak dapat dibendung lagi, tak sabar rasanya nak melihat wajah bayi yang dok kat dalam perut ni selama 9 bulan. Selain rasa teruja, rasa risau pun ada, risau jika ada kekurangan pada bayi yang akan lahir nanti, risau jika sesuatu yang buruk berlaku. Hati ini tak tenteram sejak akhir-akhir ni.

Setiap malam tak boleh nak lelapkan mata. Pusing kiri pusing kanan, still tak boleh nak tidur. Memang biasa di saat akhir mengandung memang tak boleh tidur kan. Masa mengandungkan ekah dulu pun macam tu juga. Paling perit tangan sebelah kanan ni selalu jer sakit, dari pergelangan tangan hinggalah ke hujung hujung jari, rasa macam dicucuk-cucuk. Memang tak boleh tidur dibuatnya. Ke bilik air toksah ceritalah, boleh kata setiap jam. Kalau lambat sikit, alamat kencing dalam seluarlah nampaknyer..he he.

Malam tadi, lepas sembahyang maghrib secara berjemaah dengan hubby, semasa dia memohon doa dari Allah SWT, entah kenapa hati ini sayu sangat. Bila selesai doa, hubby hulurkan tangan lalu ku kucup tangan suamiku dan tanpa disedari air mata menitis satu persatu. Hubby tanya kenapa? Entahlah tak tau nak jawab macamana, rasa sayu dan hiba sangat hati ini. Aku meminta dia memaafkan semua kesalahan yang telah aku lakukan kepadanya, yelah nama pun suami isteri kan, kadang kala terkasar bahasa juga. Hubby kata tiada apa yang hendak di maafkan, namun dia maafkan juga untuk menunaikan hajat isterinya ini. Barulah lega rasa hati ini bila suami cakap macam tu. Kata hubby lagi, jangan fikir yang bukan-bukan, sentiasa tenangkan fikiran kerana setiap apa yang kita fikir dan lakukan akan memberi kesan kepada bayi yang dikandung.

Hari ini, kalau ikutkan tarikh EDD, tinggal 10 hari sahaja lagi untuk melahirkan bayi ini. Menurut gynae, aku kena juga c-sect. Sepatutnya 13 hb haritu dah kena c-sect, tapi aku minta supaya tunggu sehingga tarikh akhir EDD. Gynae kata, terpulang kepada aku, jika berlaku apa-apa nanti, aku kena tanggung sendiri kerana risiko tinggi. Aku hanya berdoa pada Allah SWT agar bayi ini lahir dengan selamat. Amin.

Di saat-saat akhir ini, kepada teman semua, jika ada terkasar bahasa, harap di ampunkan, doakan kesejahteraan bayi dan ibu ini semasa melahirkan. Doakan kami panjang umur dan tiada apa-apa yang buruk berlaku.

~♥~My Princess

Yesterday i bought few things for my princess.

A dress

Like usual, she was so excited with new things :)

Panjangnyer muncung :P

I bought her books too, and she like them very much.

Tak cukup tangan, guna kaki bagai nak membaca..ekah ekah...

Dah habis baca, makan bukulah pulak...hmmm

Here, pics of her reading her new book

I am trying to expose her with books now, as she seems like fed up with her flash cards. Now she want to listen to ABC and Alif Baa Taa. I hope she will love to learn.

p/s: The quality of the pics are not very good...handphone cikai maa...he he

~♥~Thank You Very Much For The Prayer :)

Salam and hi to all,

Update about my beloved FIL.

Alhamdulillah, now he is not in the critical situation anymore....thank you for the prayers from you all. I really appreciate it...thanx very very much. Now he can talk and last night, malaekah call him via handphone and they talk very nicely and ekah sounds very happy, her grandpa as well...they sounds like enjoying to talk to each other. Today, insyaAllah my little princess will go to the hospital with her grandma to visit her beloved grandpa. My FIL still weak and cannot walk yet, but he is getting better and better. MasyaAllah he was very strong to fight with his sickness :)

Syukur, my FIL is fine now, hopefully he will come home very soon. We need him at home to make our life cheerful and meaningful like always :)

To all, only Allah can reward all your prayers....thanx again from me and my family from Pakistan here.

~♥~Say A Little Pray Please TQ

Assalamualaikum and hi,

Just a short notice,

For all friends, family members and visitors, please pray for my beloved and respectful Father In Law. He got admitted to hospital since yesterday. He was vomitting non stop since yesterday morning until last night. Problem with his stomach. Lastly, before my brother in law took him to the hospital little blood also come out with his vomit. On that time, my father in law can't move his body, can't talk and in unconcious situation. Please pray for his quick recover. We love him so much especially malaekah, she was crying non stop asking about her "baba".

To all, i really need your pray. Thank you.

Abah, we all love you, please be strong. Lots of pray from us that u will recover very very soon. Amin

~♥~Let See What She Can Do

Today, my princess is 2 years, 3 months, 3 weeks and 3 days old. Triple 3 he he.

Okay, let see, what she can do now.

Climbing her mom closet, which is so miserable, then pick something, then play with it.

She can use and control the mouse now, so, when she want to choose her program which she like to see, then she can click on it. At this moment she was watching her fav malay cartoon "upin & ipin". At least she can improve her malay language while watching it :)

My "amah" is sweeping a floor, she really like to do this, not very perfect, but at least, she know how to use that "jaru" or "penyapu"

p/s: look at the "selipar".....hantam sajalah labuuuu

She can wear shoes :)

Dah pandai melawa, always want to wear necklace or bangles. Soon, she will ask for piercing lah pulak....:P

btw, in this video below, she was wearing the beads necklace, handymade, someone gave me long time ago.

Besides that, my little princess alhamduillah can perfome her salat (sembahyang) now. Not the complete one, at least she know how to make "takbiratul ihram" then she skip the "rukuk", she then "sujud" then again stand up, and do all the same thing again. Lastly she will raise her hand and make "doa"....in her own language ler..and end it with the word "amiiin".

Only she forgot the "rukuk". I always want to snap the photo or video when she perfomed her salat, but i always failed, as when i start record, she will stop doing it....grrrrr.

What else, oh yeah, when finished eating she will say "doa uka" which means, "baca doa", so she will raise her hand, me or her daddy will recite the doa, and she will follow. :)

She also can take a bath her ownself, but need me to observe her, kalau tak habis satu botol baby shampoo dia kerjakan :P

She can compare, which is "azan" and which is "song" he he. When she listen to "azan" she will immediately raise her hand and make doa, and silent. And for song, you all know ler...she will start dancing mancing lancing ler.

Dah pandai mengajuk cakap orang, when i told her "ma babab kang" she will repeat "ma babab kang", when i said "nanti kau yer" she will repeat the same "nanti kau yer" dengan muka-muka dan tunjuk jari sekali dia boleh tiru....sabar jerrr lah.

But only one thing am worried about my princess, when come to educate her, she don't like it at all, as for example when i want to teach her to memorize ABC or Alif Baa Taa or counting number, she refused it. She always change the topic.....hmmm what to do eh?

~♥~An Evening With My Beautiful Flower

My Beautiful Flower look so gorgeos these days, I love to see her like that, away from fever, cough, or cold. Alhamdulillah, she is healthy. Hope it will remains like that, as I want to see her gaining her weight.

As the weather is gettting hot these days, I just dare to take my beloved little princess to walk nearby only. We don't have park nearby, it's too far, we have to go by car. So, we just as usual walk along the way to bazaar (market) then turn back home.

Along the way, these were what my flower, my little princess, my beautiful baby Malaekah saw and met.

My girl was getting ready to go out...Mama....let's go.

I just follow her from back.....as her bodyguard...cum photographer...he he

She tried to open the front door of the car..kat tepi jalan tuh.

Mama, can i go inside the car? eish budak ni, tah keta siapa, nak masuk pulak dah.

This is the guard booth, every night the guard will stand or sit there during his duty.

Another view of the guard booth.

My sweetheart in the guard booth...elo, nak jadik minah guard pulak kerrr?

She drag the guard's chair to the street side....even i said "Jangan ekah"

Tengok tu, buat muka tak bersalah jer....:P

She drag it to the middle of the street. Luckily, she listen to me when i told her to put it back at it place...sayang dia.

She also met Iman, her bestfriend. They don't meet each other for quite a while as Iman was not healthy, she got fever, and i noticed that she lost her weight too. Pity Iman.

Malaekah with Iman....Iman is such a beautiful girl...she is like a doll.

Ehem ehem, the next day, on evening walk, this boy try to make friend to my princess. He want to give that gift box to malaekah, but i don't allow him to do so, probably that was his mom jewel box...he he.

So, here is the "rishtey" he he...... FRIENDS OKAY !!

On the way back home, we met this ice cream man. This is how they sell ice cream here....:) Along the way the ice cream man will play the sound of "paddle pop" song. You can see the speaker which paste at the roof of the trishaw.

My princess was waiting for her turn to buy ice cream :)

Mama, i want vanilla ice cream

So, at last, my beautiful flower end up her evening by enjoy eating her ice cream.....she looks tired, but of course happy at the same time.